Don’t Try to Give Up Over-Spending!!!
Have you ever tried to give up
over-spending?
What is the success rate in giving up
over-spending?
Why people turn up unsuccessful when they
want to give up over-spending?
Uncontrollable nature of Over-spending:
Giving up over-spending is a struggle. It
brings a lot of negative emotions like guilt, frustration and shame. When you
are thinking about giving up over-spending, sub-consciously you are still
thinking about over-spending. The more you try to give up over-spending, the
more you indulge in over-spending.
Directly, thinking about giving up
over-spending will not give you the desired result.
Solution for over-spending:
Any strategy to control over-spending will
be stressful and useless. So don’t try to give up over-spending.
It doesn’t mean that you need to suffer
perennially with over-spending without a solution. The solution is ‘Stop
thinking about giving up over-spending; start thinking about going up in
savings’.
Going up in Savings:
Try to go up in your savings. Think about
how to increase your savings. Trying to save more is becoming stronger. It
brings positive emotions like hope, pride and joy.
This brings a paradigm shift in your
mind-set. Instead of getting stressed with giving up over-spending, you will be
getting energised with going up in savings.
In your attempt to go up in savings, you
will sub-consciously give up over-spending.
Get busy with saving:
You need to get busy in such a way that you
don’t have time to think or do over-spending. That’s the only way to come out
of over-spending mind-set.
When you don’t train your mind, it will be
the master and you will be its slave. When you train your mind, you will be the
master and the mind will be your slave.
When you train your mind to think about going
up in savings, you will be a master of savings and not a slave of
over-spending.
Listen “Savings”:
Try to listen more about savings. When you
hear an advertisement in radio on savings pay more attention. You need to be with friends who are good savers
and encourage them to talk about savings. Listening about savings helps you
form thoughts about savings.
Watch “savings”:
Similarly, watch programs on savings. This
will help you program your mind to save more. Watched advertisements, that can
make you over-spend is the reason for your over-spending mind-set. Now we are
trying to reverse it by watching programs or advertisements on savings.
Read “Savings”:
Read books and blogs about saving more,
investing money, becoming rich and so on. This rewires your thought process and
frees the slave (to over-spending) in you.
Experience “Savings”:
In the past, you could have had some
positive experience on savings. Your childhood experiences with a piggy bank,
or your first deposit or your first SIP…
Think more about these positive saving
experience more and more. Also create similar positive experiences about
savings at present. This will help you create similar experience on savings in
the future.
Input-Output Strategy:
When you give positive inputs in your mind,
it will also give you a positive output. By giving positive inputs to your mind
in the form of listening about savings, watching about savings, reading on
savings, experiencing savings, your mind has no other choice except to give you
a positive output by making you go up in your savings.
The bottomline:
Don’t try to give up over-spending. Try to
go up in savings. When you try to go up in savings, you will go up in savings
and giving up over-spending will just be a by-product.
Author bio:
The author is Ramalingam.K an MBA
(Finance) and certified financial planner. He can be reached at ramalingam@holisticinvestment.in and www.holisticinvestment.in
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